Friday, October 9, 2009

What's true Love?

After numerous personal experience and much thoughts, I've finally got the answer, what is love?

As we've seen in many many movies, couples show their mates love by several ways, these include holding hands, hugging, kissing and of course, the sensitive thingy. However, is that really love? If someone is only going after a girl or boy because they want to touch, hug, kiss or sleep with him/ her, is that love at all, or just the superficial, mask of love, with no degree of true love in it at all, that's list, whcih often is mistaken as love by most people.

So what is true love? The deepest and most genuine love, is selfless sacrifice. It is that no matter who your love chooses, even if that's your mortal enemy, as long as she's happy, as long as she feels good, as long as she's cared for, one should not cut in, instead, one should let things go how they should. This is not yet the complete true love. What's most important is that one stays faithful to one's love even if that's the case. Also, one should be sincerely and really happy that one's love is happy with whoever he/she's dating.

Most importantly, never be jealous of that person. Think it this way, he/she is the person who's making the one you love happy, that person is making ur love's life joyful. Instead, you should be friends with that person, and be really grateful that he/she is making ur love happy. If ur love likes him/her, he/she must have some really attractive values, you should try to learn that and appreciate that, not being jealous and being miserable, sobbing away, wasting life just because he/she's not in love with you.

So, in summary, true love is the selfless sacrifice, and also the hope that ur love will be happy no matter what. I think this is really important, so my friends will not have so much trouble when their sweetheart is with someone else. Remember, understanding, blessing and sacrifice. (LOVE YOU GUYS)

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